St Mary Star of the Sea College is founded on the philosophy of the Rule of St Benedict. Our community is a place of security where ‘the strong have something to strive for and the weak have nothing to run from'.
Pastoral Care encompasses all that the College does to meet the spiritual, personal, social and learning needs of our students. It seeks to create a safe and caring environment in which our students are nurtured as they learn. It provides opportunities for students to enjoy success and recognition, to encourage self-discipline and to derive enjoyment from a wide range of experiences. The College acknowledges that the wellbeing of students, staff, parents and other community members is interrelated.
All members of the College have a role in Pastoral Care.
Safeguarding Children and Young People Statement of Commitment
As a Good Samaritan College under the auspices of Good Samaritan Education (GSE) we are entrusted to share in the mission of the Church through the ministry of Catholic Education. Our charism requires us to sustain and nurture communities of learning that uphold the teachings and mission of Jesus Christ and that draw on the essential values of the Rule of Benedict: love of neighbour, stewardship, community, discipline, hospitality, justice and peace.
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As a GSE College, we hold the care, safety and wellbeing of children and young people as a central and fundamental responsibility of our apostolic work. Every person who shares in the work of the College is responsible for promoting the inherent dignity of children and young people, and for upholding their fundamental right to be respected and nurtured in a safe school environment.
St Mary’s College commits to providing a safe and nurturing culture and learning environment for all children and young people. At all times, the ongoing safety and wellbeing of children and young people in our care will be the primary focus of care and decision-making, with particular attention paid to the safety and wellbeing of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children and young people, children and young people from culturally and/or linguistically diverse backgrounds, and children and young people with a disability.
St Mary Star of the Sea College also commits to:
- taking into consideration the views of children and young people about decisions that affect their lives.
- empowering children and young people by taking their views seriously, and addressing any concerns they may have.
- acknowledging the cultural diversity of families and being sensitive to how this may impact on the wellbeing and safety of children and young people.
- taking proactive steps to prevent child abuse, and identifying risks early so that such risks may be removed or reduced.
- staying abreast of and meeting legislative requirements to protect the safety and wellbeing of children and young people.
- continuously reviewing and improving systems and practices to protect children and young people from abuse.
- taking prompt action when allegations of abuse are raised and ensuring that they are appropriately referred and investigated.
- providing children and young people with the knowledge and skills to understand and maintain their own personal safety.
- applying robust human resources and recruitment practices for all staff, contractors and volunteers.
Creating and nurturing child-safe school environments is a dynamic process that involves active participation and responsibility by St Mary’s College. It is marked by collaboration, vigilance and proactive approaches across policies, procedures, curriculum and operational practices.
To this end, St Mary’s College commits to:
- providing regular training and education to all employees on child abuse risks.
- implementing specific policies, procedures, training and a national Code of Conduct to support the achievement of child safety.
- ensuring that every person in our College understands the important and specific role they play, individually and collectively, to ensure the wellbeing and safety of all children and young people in their care.
House System
At the beginning of her life at St Mary’s, each student is assigned to one of eight Houses: Bashir, Foley, Gibbons, Hayes, Kelly, Lyons, Sullivan, Ungunmerr-Baumann.
Our eight Houses are communities within the larger community of St Mary Star of the Sea. These Houses are points of welcome, of gathering, of prayer and of celebration. They give all of us ways to connect and to share our gifts in House activities.
Our House Patrons are eight women of faith, women of courage, women who chose to love their neighbours, women who in a range of spheres have dared to make a difference. Each House patron was selected very carefully to represent women who demonstrated the qualities of being a Good Samaritan in their lives. The values they possess are those which the students strive for and reflect our motto, 'I am born for higher things.'
BASHIR
Dr Marie Bashir
Former Governor of the State of New South Wales
Born of migrant parents in outback New South Wales she went on to specialise in adolescent psychiatry maintaining an interest in early childhood services, migrant and Indigenous health as well as the needs of the elderly. In varied roles of public service Marie Bashir has shown a continuing enigmatic ability to selflessly give to others in a variety of different contexts.
Her life speaks to us of the spirit of compassion.
FOLEY
Dr Cathy Foley
Physicist with the Commonwealth Scientific and Industrial Research Organisation
Her ambition at school was to be a science teacher but this dyslexic awkward school girl feared that goal might perhaps be unattainable. Her passion for science lead to enduring understandings of what it means to break down stereotypes, what women can achieve in male dominated fields and the importance of using knowledge and power responsibly and with a sense of justice.
Her life speaks to us of yearning to find meaning in the world
GIBBONS
Sr Scholastica Gibbons
Guide and inspirational leader of the Sisters of the Good Samaritan of the Order of St Benedict
Sr Scholastica Gibbons was a Sister of Charity but her sense of duty and her capacity to take up the call to answer a need lead her to embrace the young women who came to join the newly founded order of the Sisters of the Good Samaritan. She was Mother superior of both Orders. She inspired and lead both groups of women to embrace the call of the Gospel.
Her life speaks to us of a willingness to answer our call and live with integrity.
HAYES
Sr Rita Mary Hayes
Sister of the Good Samaritan of the Order of St Benedict - Previous principal of our College, St Mary Star of the Sea Wollongong
By all accounts Sr Rita Hayes was a true educator and many of the aspects of college life we take for granted are a direct result of her willingness to embrace the development of the whole person. With age and the possibilities of retirement from active ministry instead she listened with a deep sense of trust to what God invited her to do next. She has spent much of this time in Railico…..
Her life speaks to us of service and the generosity of living for others
KELLY
Moira Kelly
Volunteer and humanitarian working for the shunned and the outcast
As a school student Moira Kelly was self-aware enough to realise that she had a passionate interest in the welfare of others. Her drive has taken her as far afield as India, Botswana, South Africa, Bosnia and Albania addressing issues as diverse as education, refugees and HIV AIDS. Through all her experiences she has chosen to walk with the small people committed to interventions that change lives.
Her life speaks to us of seeking out paths to transformation
LYONS
Dame Enid Lyons
Wife, mother, teacher, Member of the House of Representatives, advocate and writer
As the wife of the prime minister and the mother of twelve children Enid Lyons had already made a significant contribution to her family and country. Following the death of her husband she became a politician in her own right, a spokesperson for women and an advocate for social issues. As a broadcaster, writer and commissioner for the Australian Broadcasting Commission she was astonishingly adaptable with an innate ability to see the needs of the community and do something about them.
Her life speaks to us of a willingness to embrace change
SULLIVAN
Anne Sullivan
Radical teacher interpreter and guide for Helen Keller
Content to allow her student to surpass her in fame and successes this young woman took on the almost unthinkable task of educating and empowering the deaf and blind child Helen Keller. Almost blind herself she saw what others could not see, she saw the possibilities and who Helen might become. Keller describes her as a conceiver, a trail-blazer, a pilgrim of life's wholeness.
UNGUNMERR-BAUMANN
Miriam Rose Ungunmerr-Baumann
Indigenous artist, teacher and spiritual guide
While acquiring a school based education she embraced her traditional cultural education and learned to read her country. As the first indigenous teacher graduate in the Northern Territory she found ways through her art to bring two worlds together. Through creativity she found ways to celebrate the riches of both her indigenous spirituality and the Christian tradition.
Her life speaks to us of seeking wisdom in ancient truths and in the present time
The Kulilla Centre
The Kulilla Centre
Our School Counselling Service, the Kulilla Centre is dedicated to supporting the wellbeing and academic success of all students. We understand that school life can bring a range of challenges, and our team of Psychologists and Counsellors is committed to helping students navigate these with confidence and resilience.
What We Offer
Our School Counselling Service provides:
- Individual Counselling: One-on-one support for students to address personal, emotional, academic, or social challenges.
- Group Sessions: Facilitated groups focusing on topics like managing stress, building friendships, or improving study skills.
- Crisis Support: Immediate assistance during times of crisis or significant distress at school.
- Workshops and Presentations: Topics include mental health awareness, conflict resolution, and self-care strategies.
- Parental Guidance: Advice and strategies to help parents support their child’s wellbeing and education.
Our Approach
We use evidence-based methods, including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), to support students’ mental health and personal development. Our client-centred approach emphasises empathy, active listening, and collaboration to set meaningful and achievable goals.
Why Access Counselling?
Students may seek counselling for various reasons, such as:
- Managing anxiety or stress
- Coping with grief or loss
- Enhancing self-esteem and confidence
- Addressing family or peer relationship challenges
- Navigating academic pressures
Confidentiality
We value and respect the privacy of our students. All counselling sessions are confidential, within the bounds of ethical and legal responsibilities. If any information needs to be shared for safety reasons, this will be discussed with the student beforehand where possible.
How to Access the Service
Students, Parents, or Year Coordinators can make referrals to the counselling service. It is recommended that you contact your Year Coordinator first to discuss your concerns. Referrals can also be made by contacting the Kulilla Centre via kulilla@stmarys.nsw.edu.au or completing the online referral form located in the Student Wellbeing Portal in Seqta.
We are here to listen, guide, and support every student to thrive both academically and personally. The Wellbeing of our students is our priority.